Just because I'm engaged does NOT mean I have all my shit together. It literally only means that I've chosen to have my shit NOT together with some other poor human who has his shit together far more than myself.
Need examples?
Since being engaged, I've had two panic attacks: one because I brushed my teeth and literally brushed part of my dental work off (stress brushing?) and one because I forgot to order an extra shot in my latte when using my Starbucks reward. Since being engaged, I've asked my mom and dad before any major wedding decision because I HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH A PHOTOGRAPHER SHOULD COST! Since being engaged, I cried because I wore one sock the right way and one sock inside out and didn't realize it until "it was too late." Since being engaged, I deposited quarters into my bank account to make a payment onto my credit card.
My point?
A ring on my finger does not make me an adult nor does it mean I am "settling" in any aspect of my life. A ring on my finger does not make me successful. I make me successful. Yes, I have chosen to spend forever with my best friend. But it isn't a solution to all of my life's problems nor does it suddenly make me less of a driven human being. The ring on my finger means I have a teammate now for the rest of my life so we can be TWICE AS IMMATURE as you and we can succeed TWICE as hard as you. DEAL WITH IT!
Don't be jealous of the engagements and weddings on your timeline. They're not markers of a more successful life or an "adult" life more than anyone else's. Additionally, there's no need to degrade anyone's engagement or wedding announcements on your timeline. Social media leads us to believe that we all live flawless and fantastic lives when behind the cyber screen, aren't we all just eating cereal out of frisbees with sporks trying to have the careers of our dreams?